Tuesday 21 April 2015

What Makes A Great Bottom ?

This would be subject to debates as each top values differently. But in my opinion, after doing countless number of bottoms, I thought I could come up with a list of things that make a great bottom.

1. Hygiene
Nothing beats a clean and nice smelling body. And I meant the entire part of the body including the pleasure hole. Some use hose, some use others use anal douche/enema, some use... anything. Whatever it is, it is important to clean it thoroughly though not excessively. Inexperienced ones usually just clean the surface superficially, and you might end up with having the most unsightly (and smelly) experience. Been there, done that, no thanks. I even turned away a perfectly hot young dude because of that.

2. Good kisser
I'm not a sucker for kissing but it's real turn on to be making out with a good kisser. Just enough tongue play and smooching alternating between one another plus just nice amount of saliva is perfect. I hate having a tongue bath, seriously.

3. Oral skills
I have to separate this out from kissing because it takes a different level altogether to be a perfect sucker. I love it when the bottom uses no teeth at all, actively playing with his tongue while sucking, and enough suction force. A good sucker must also know when and where to lick, and when and where to suck. Aside from cock sucking, nipples play is another important application of this skill. I'm not those who can cum by nipples play alone but I do derive quite a bit of pleasure from it. The important part is to know when to lick, to suck, and to chew.

4. Perky/Bubble butts
Those bubble butts look good enough that you can eat them ! Seriously not that, but it's really a delight to see a healthy, firm and juicy looking butts. They're perfect to hold as you bury your face down during rimming, and nice to slap when things get really steamy.

5. Looks
One of the superficial factors, but can't be helped since most of us are shallow creatures. I'm attracted to either cute boyish looks because they look so sweet when getting screwed, or rugged manly looks because they look so hot when enjoying being screwed despite being so manly.

6. Built
Another one of the superficial factors. I'm attracted to guys ranging from lean toned to gym fit. Unfortunately the definition of such fitness levels tend to vary between different people, and at times stretched to beyond its natural definition. Lean toned is not equal to skinny or scrawny, and gym fit does not mean any kind of built so long as you go to the gym once in a while. Nicely defined chest is not unusual but abs (four, six or eight packs) is rarer. Imagine looking at a hot bottom with six pack abs riding on your cock furiously. I have no preference between fair-skinned or tanned guys but overly fair or overly tanned looks too unhealthy for me.

7. Nipples
I considered nipples as a separate factor altogether because these alone can be a huge turn-on factor especially when coupled with nice pecs. Perky, juicy and dark nipples are hot in general. But I'm not so particular so long as the bottom enjoys having his nipples played. Different people have different sensitivity level. In one of my post, a sub can cum handsfree just but nipples stimulation. I knew another bottom who only felt ticklish when his nipples were played with.

8. Cock
You might be wondering why cock is important for a bottom. Personally, I'm particularly turned on by a bottom with rock hard cock, even better if he has a big cock. Imagine how hot it is to see a bottom riding on your cock, with his rock hard cock swinging up and down and slapping against your abs. Or when you pound him in doggy while holding on to his hard stick at the same time.

9. Eager to please
I hate starfish or dead log. A good bottom must be eager to please. He would treat my body and cock as tools to derive his pleasure from. Worship me, hold me, lick me, hold my cock, savour it, and the list goes on. It does not necessarily mean he must be submissive (unless I'm in the SM mode). If a bottom focuses all his efforts into pleasuring me, I will certainly reward him with all the pleasure he can get too. I would consider a bottom with a substantial amount of this quality to be a hungry bottom.

10. Mannerism
Big no no to sissy and feminine mannerism for me.

11. Moans and dirty words
Manly moans and grunts are big turn-ons. Like the earlier point, girly screams and moans are not for me. I like dirty words, the kinds that encourage me to keep going or affirm that I do a good job (boost my ego, you see). Excessive words and vulgarities tend to turn me off though. Watch any western porn and you will know what I mean.

12. Stamina
Although more of my sex sessions last for 2 hours or less, I regularly need long session. I have encountered bottoms who claim that they can play long hours, only to beg or make excuses for me to stop the session after 3 hours or so. Some great bottoms can even continue enjoying being fucked after cumming. I would consider a bottom with extensive stamina to be a power bottom.

13. Flexibility
If you're up for long session, you wouldn't be satisfied with just one position. Flip him, make him stand, make him sit, impale him from top, all sort of positions imaginable would make your session far more interesting. And to do that, you need the bottom to be flexible with his body (of course you have to be flexible too).

14. Sphincter muscle control skill
The ability to control the sphincter muscle is what truly separates out the good and the average bottoms. This affects the ease of initial entry. It's always nice to drill someone who readily takes your cock and you can immediately start the pounding. But this is not important to me. What's more important is when your bottom can squeeze his muscle as your cock was sliding in and out of his hole. When done properly, the squeezing action can send you to climax very quickly.

15. Affinity for cum
You would have noticed this from my posts. A bottom who loves cum turns me on a lot. Nothing is more satisfactory than seeing a bottom eagerly swallowed my manjuice. This can be fresh from the tap, or collected into a cup for later consumption.

Despite these many factors, I believe it could be summed up to "Be comfortable and just enjoy each other". Agree ?

2 comments:

  1. very enlightening post (to know you better). yup, end of the day, we need to be comfortable to enjoy each other. thanks of sharing.

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